Why do some loves fade away,
And others grow intense?
Why do some fools,
Who fall in love,
Fall from grace,
While others,
Love beyond the grave?
Somewhere in that book of love,
Please tell me why,
Oh dearly why,
These rules of love,
So I may feel that dear embrace!
WANDERING WHERE I AM GOING! 
I’ve had trouble understanding this as well but continue to learn and understand, rather than react and dictate. It seems as though we need to grasp empathy for others, in order to understand true love. Although saying that, I am no expert in that area.
Thanks for sharing and take care 🙂